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struesdell
06-07-2005, 12:12 PM
My boyfriend has only ever used male massage therapist because he is afraid he would become aroused if a female therapist work on him. His choice got me to wondering how industry professionals deal with this problem. So: How do therapists deal with male client who become aroused?

I told my boyfriend that professionals probably have encountered this problem, and simply ignore it. Do you think my boyfriend's first instinct is correct...simply avoid the situation?

I am not a massage therapist, just an occasional client who is curious. Also...I am not soliciting information on "happy endings" or any other forms of prostitution.

thanks,
ST
bluebelle945
06-18-2005, 12:32 AM
This is not abnormal. Males respond to the sense of touch. I have worked on males that have been aroused and in my experience they are much more embarrassed. I tend to drape males more heavily in the groin area with a towel to avoid the embarrassment and ignore it. If a man does mention it I tell them it is normal and try to make them at ease as possible.
Mimi
08-29-2006, 06:05 PM
Originally posted by struesdell
My boyfriend has only ever used male massage therapist because he is afraid he would become aroused if a female therapist work on him. His choice got me to wondering how industry professionals deal with this problem. So: How do therapists deal with male client who become aroused?

I told my boyfriend that professionals probably have encountered this problem, and simply ignore it. Do you think my boyfriend's first instinct is correct...simply avoid the situation?

I am not a massage therapist, just an occasional client who is curious. Also...I am not soliciting information on "happy endings" or any other forms of prostitution.

thanks,
ST
I personally CAN'T ignore an erectionm, because it's standing there waving itself at me...lol, but I usually move away from it. If I'm working on the person's legs and it happens, I may move to his shoulders. If the client looks asleep, I may stay where I am. If he looks awake or uncomfortable, I move elsewhere.